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Ice

Quite literally your situation is on ice and is not going to change suddenly. You may not like it, but it is neither damaging or good, but consistent and shielded. This is a time for reflection and consideration.  In a way it is a gift, you are being given the time to plan, without needing to act.  Emotionally and spiritually it is a cold time and you may even be concerned yourself about your own lack of emotion and caring. There will be a thaw when the time is right and you are strong enough to cope with whatever happens next. This is a time for preparation and planning.